Soulmates
One day, I was listening to one of Wayne Dyer’s workshops and one of his patients, told him that she was totally in love and her boy friend was her soulmate.
Dyer asked her how did she knew that for sure and she answered him, that her boy friend was perfect, their relationship was heavenly. He calls her every day, they drink coffee the same way and finish each others sentences all the time!
Great! He said, you just described your best friend to me!
I was puzzled when I heard that!
Then he explains, that the best friend would not be her soulmate.
Soulmates are the ones that push your buttons!
“WHAT?!” – I thought.
He continues, saying that soulmates were the ones that make you go unusual ways, make you see life in different perspectives, make you use the best out of you, push your buttons to a point that some times you think that is the end and then, the best part…
…when you look back in your life, you see that you are a better person, you grew as a human being, your partner is also a better person and your relationship grew together with both of you!
So, next time you are feeling sad, look back in your life and reflect on how much you grew!
I could use many more posts, just to give you my examples but, for now, I just want to leave you with the same feeling Wayner Dyer left me – “Wow! It worthed every single moment! Mr. Sugar, I LOVE YOU!”
PS – The previous statement is my interpretation of Mr. Dyer’s workshop. I do not remember which one specifically, however they are all very good, so explore them all and you will find this episode there!